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Cosmopolitan
September 2005

Hot New Sex Tricks…And Cold
By: Julie Taylor

In your pursuit of becoming a great lover, there’s an important lesson to be learned: It really helps to mix things up and vary your technique. . “By experimenting with different degrees of touch and temperature, you will expose your man’s body to a variety of thrilling physical reactions he hasn’t felt before,” says biopsychologist Mark S. Blumberg, PhD, author of Body Heat. “These diverse sensations dramatically increase arousal, heighten skin sensitivity, and release pleasure-fueling endorphins.” To find out how to treat your guy to some of the most electrifying sensations he’s never experienced, read on.

Eyes Wide Shut

Erogenous zones pop up in the strangest places, so keep an open mind. For instance, kissing your man’s eyelids can turn him on in ways he never knew. Eyelid skin is similar to that of a man’s scrotum; a lack of subcutaneous fat pushes the nerves nearly to the surface.

Source: Sex expert Ava Cadell, PhD.

Sensations to Skip:

5 Tactile moves that are sure to send him running:

1. Treating him to a walking back massage in four-inch stilettos.

2. Dripping hot wax on him. Anywhere. Scalding skin is not sexy.

3. Rubbing him down with vanilla, rose, jasmine, or any other girlie-scented oil

4. Tickling him with the duster you use for housecleaning

5. Spanking his butt until her cries out for Mommy.