Project Description

Cosmopolitan
April 2003

Ask for One Thing You Really Crave Every Time You Do It

Maybe you’re already getting it good, but you’ll get it as good as this century if you make a point of asking for something specific–a special deep kiss, a sensitive spot touched just so–that sets you on sexual fire. You’ll be satisfied , and he’ll be psyched that he’s providing such earth-shattering sensations.

Next time you’re getting hot and heavy with your guy, tell him in a flattering way what you enjoy and want more of, says Ava Cadell, sex therapist and author of Stock Market Orgasm (Peters Publishing, 1999). “Say, `I love when you kiss my nipples so much, it would be amazing if you gently bit them.'” Be as specific as possible so you don’t find yourself constantly correcting him. Or slowly guide your honey’s hand or mouth to your money spot, suggests Cadell. To let him know he’s on target, moan and groan your encouragement and appreciation.