Redbook
Dec 2004

Shortcuts to Amazing Sex
by Lisa Lombardi

Too busy to get busy with your guy?
Read on for the secrets that’ll have you two steaming things up in no time.

3 moves that’ll do it for you

GET TO THE FINISH LINE FASTER YOURSELF WITH THESE ORGASM DO’S FROM AVA CADELL, PH.D., AUTHOR OF THE SOON-TO-BE-RELEASED THE IDIOT’S GUIDE TO ORAL SEX.

DIRTY TALK

Hearing some triple-X words come out of your mild-mannered man—and even uttering a few of your own—can fast-track your climax, says Cadell. The reason. “The more any of your senses are stimulated—in this case, your sense of hearing, through erotic words—the quicker you’ll be aroused. And when you say the words, you unleash your own sexual energy, which makes you more aroused and primes you for orgasm.” If you’re not comfortable talking naughty, leave it to your guy. Perhaps ask him to call you on his way home every Friday evening to describe what he wants to do to you that night. Who knew phoned-in foreplay could be so hot?

ASK FOR ORAL SEX

. “This is the quickest way for most women to orgasm,” says Cadell. Most men are happy to oblige when they hear the magic words. “You are so good at it—it drives me crazy!”

GET ON TOP

There are both psychological and physiological reasons why this is such a potent position for us girls. First, you’re in control. “It puts you in the right mind-set—like, ‘I’m taking you.’” says Cadell. The other reason it rocks. “This move provides direct clitoral and G-spot stimulation,” she adds. “It’s one of the best ways for a woman to have a strong, fast orgasm.”