Men’s Health

20th Anniversary Collector’s Edition Nov 2008

Be Her Best Ever by Debby Herbenick, Ph.D.

Small Changes Can Make a Big Difference- And Push Her Over The Edge

The difference between ho-hum and “oh yeah” is attention to detail.  “A lot of men just barely miss the mark”, says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., the author of She Comes First.  “A woman doesn’t want to hurt a man’s feelings, so that’s one of the main reasons she’ll fake it.”  Be prepared to end her acting career thusly.

The Mistake  Forgetting Slow Equals Intense

The Fix- Use your thumb and index finger to gently massage her breast, first clockwise and then counterclockwise, says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., founder of  Then place your hand over her areola, and roll it with your palm.  Finally, (very) gently pull and tease her nipple.  Do one at a time, in slow motion.

The Gain- This careful, intense formula combines several kinds of stimulation, ensuring that she enjoys the experience.