A surefire way to boost any guy’s ego and convince him that you’re seriously one smart cookie is by asking intelligent questions you’re positive he can answer. For example, let’s say he has a pretty unique job: Come up with a clever way to find out more about what he does, while getting the conversation really flowing as well. Be a good listener, and remember to take an active part in the discussion. Witty commentary will likely earn you extra bonus points, as long as it’s not at his expense, of course!

Expert Tip: Listen more than you talk, as 50 percent of communication is listening, points out sexpert and spokesperson for The Experience Channel, Dr. Ava Cadell. If a guy says something that is confusing when he’s describing his job or passion, ask for more details, adds Wygant. “Men like a woman who is interested in our passions and how we spend our days. It turns us on and makes us feel that you are the cool chick that every guy wants and we have.”

We touched on this tip a little bit earlier, but one of the most important pieces of advice we can provide you is to simply be yourself. Don’t view a date as a test you need to study for and perform your best on. You’ll only come off as sounding unnatural or too practiced. Heck, he might even think you’re too smart! If worst comes to worst, he’s not into it. And in that case, there are plenty of other fish in the sea that will love, respect and appreciate you for who you are!

Expert Tip: “Be yourself, but imagine that you are 10 times bolder to boost your self-confidence,” suggests Dr. Cadell.

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