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“You need to nip anger issues in the bud before it turns into deep resentment and contempt,” says Cadell. Instead, try to be the bigger person and assert yourself by being open and honest about how you feel. Tell your partner her actions hurt your feelings and made you feel like she doesn’t love or desire you, Cadell suggests. And if you still have trauma to work through, head to counseling.

“People abuse their power and cheat to make themselves feel superior, but it can’t go on forever. At some point something happens to their health or finances, and they get a wakeup call and realize that the grass isn’t greener. It’s perfect where it is,” says Cadell. So if you’ve found someone with all qualities you love but just can’t keep from straying, it’s probably time to see a therapist.