“It’s fun to start by blowing your warm breath over her clitoris to get her going,” says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author and founder of sexpert.com. “Then you can flick your tongue over her clit, alternating from up and down.”

Imagine you are painting a fence from top to bottom, she says. And then “go into the windshield wiper move of using your tongue to go side-to-side.”13 Things You Should Be Doing To Her Clitoris