Hints & Advice: Most Women Really Do Not Want Your Erection to Last Longer Than An Hour

By Dr. Ava Cadell

Most Women Really Do Not Want Your Erection to Last Longer Than An Hour

Some clients are confused between a Sexologist and a Sex Surrogate—so when they come in for a session, they expect to have sex with me. I let them know that there is no nudity or sexual touching in my office.

Most clients respond apologetically, but one bodybuilder client had the balls to ask, “Can I just masturbate in front of you then?” I could hardly keep a straight face before I said in my most stern voice, “No, absolutely not.”

Then he settled down and confessed that he was afraid his erections did not last long enough. I asked how long he lasted and to my surprise, he said about an hour.

I have a ton of male clients come in because they want to stay erect longer without taking Viagra, Levitra or Cialis. I teach them some penis exercises (to do at home) to help them with their sexual endurance—But only after I reveal that most women don’t want or need penetration for a one hour.