If you want to take your relationship to the next level (meaning less talk and more play!), but don’t know how to break the ice sexually, there are a few things you can do to get your partner’s attention without being too obvious.

First, it’s helpful to understand that there are two types of intimacy when it comes to relationships, experiential intimacy and sexual intimacy, so you know exactly what you’re looking for at this stage of your relationship.

“Experiential intimacy is when a couple is actively involved in doing something they enjoy doing together — whether it’s dancing, hiking, cooking, painting or gardening,” says Dr. Ava Cadell, a world-renowned love guru, author and president of The American College of Sexologists International. “In these instances, they are interacting mentally, physically and emotionally.”

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