Play AladdinEven if you two are already plenty passionate in your sexual encounters, there are bound to be some things you’ve been dying to try—and he’s sure to have some secret fantasies of his own. “Before the big day, exchange a list of three wishes, things that you think would heighten your romantic or sexual experience,” says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a certified clinical sexologist and author of Passion Power (Peters Publishing). You don’t have to get down and dirty. Start by listing gentle activities, like a sensual massage, having him brush your hair or taking a bubble bath together. You can work up to the kinky stuff later. These wishes will give you both some intriguing tricks to try on your trip, and will also open the doors for communication—and experimentation—down the road.In the real world: Plan a Wish Night once a month. “It’s a great way to learn about each other,” says Kuriansky, and to tickle each other’s fancies – maybe even literally.
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