Dr. Ava Cadell, Author

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The Healing Power of #MeToo – Loving Solutions for Sexual Abuse Survivors

When Dr. Ava Cadell added her name to the rising tide of the #MeToo social media campaign, she realized that it was finally time to speak out about her personal survival and recovery from rape and sex trafficking. Healing from these atrocities shaped her life and inspired her to become a sexologist who helps others to overcome their trauma and enjoy healthy sex lives.

Through autobiographical details of her own survival, and many stories from her clinical practice as a Sexologist, Dr. Ava works through the real life pain of survivors and outlines how to arrive at a new destination of self-love that enables a loving recovery.

Her new book offers not only exercises and tools for survivors and couples to heal and thrive, but also suggestions for how we can combat sexual violence as a society.

Author Bio

Dr. Ava is the author of many books including Neuroloveology: The Power To Mindful Love & Sex, which was endorsed by Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Click on the trailer below to find out more about this book that blends brain science with the science of love.

Dr. Ava’s other recent books include Idiot’s Guides Kama Sutra, The Sexy Little Book of Sex Games, Stock Market Orgasm and 12 Steps to Everlasting Love. #ReclaimingMe, Loving Solutions for Sexual Healing is her 12th book.

Dr. Ava’s Books


NeuroLoveology: The Power to Mindful Love & Sex explores how the brain processes attraction, relationships, conflict and sex. Each chapter will introduce the science and psychology behind the various elements of an adult romantic relationship while also including the tools to enhance that relationship, emotionally and sexually. There have been huge advances in the studies of neuroscience, which have given us an even greater understanding of the complicated ways in which the brain receives, accepts and transmits the millions of stimuli it encounters on a daily basis. One of the most fascinating aspects of these studies is the careful unraveling of the exact magic behind love and attraction.

Readers will discover new ways to make their environment more love-friendly so that the mind and body is ready, willing and able to give and receive love. This experiential, playful, hands-on book will offer the tools to create a love-changing experience that will last a lifetime.  Myriad romantic, sensual and erotic TO DO’s are included throughout the book, marked with a special icon. Additionally throughout the book, there will be words of wisdom by experts in the field of neuroscience and the science of love and sex in a sidebar entitled,Genius Corner.

Idiot’s Guides: Kama Sutra

The Kama Sutra is not just about making love. It’s about connecting with and cherishing a lover every day. Idiot’s Guides: Kama Sutra is a fun and insightful guide and includes dozens of beautiful, full-color photos that illustrate traditional movements, as well as techniques for modern lovemaking. Certified sexologist and founder of Loveology University, Dr. Ava Cadell, explores the roots of the ancient art of Kama Sutra, essential warm-ups like aphrodisiacs and erotic massage, erogenous zones, oral pleasures, and more!

  • Insightful advice for building intimacy & growing your relationship.
  • Fun foreplay “warm-ups,” like erotic massages, aphrodisiacs, and more!
  • Helpful hints on achieving the best orgasms, finding the G-spot, and multiple orgasms for men and women.
  • Tips for spicing up your lovemaking and enhancing sexual positions.

The Sexy Little Book of Sex Games

The Sexy Little Book of Sex Games is perfect to add some excitement to the act. It describes new and exciting ways to use food and common household items in the bedroom, teaches couples the importance of sensual dialog as well as flirty games and role play. The Sexy Little Book of Sex Games adds flavor and diversity to any relationship, making couples feel closer than ever. The book consists of:

  • Flirty foreplay for the senses
  • Food Games and Aphrodisiacs
  • Sex Talk Games
  • Kissing Games
  • Erotic massage and Happy Ending Games
  • Games around the House
  • Fantasies and Role Playing Games
  • Playful Positions and Props
  • Oral Sex Games
  • Power Play Games

The Sexy Little Book of Oral Pleasure

The Sexy Little Book of Oral Pleasure is for busy, adventurous people who want no-holds-barred, straight-to-the-point information on titillating, erotic, and luscious oral sex for men and women. I have written this book so it will be fun and easy to find whatever question, technique, or fact you are looking for. It offers an expansion of your oral sex horizon including detailed information about stimulating various male and female pleasure spots, , advanced oral sex positions, and how to achieve the ultimate orgasm, a TriGasm. It will help you to avoid oral pitfalls and even teach you the latest slang words for oral sex and your genitals.

  • Pleasuring her & him
  • Exploring types of orgasms
  • Making condoms sexy
  • The A-spot, U-spot, G-spot & H-spot
  • Common oral sex mistakes
  • achieve the ultimate orgasm, “Tri-gasm”

Idiot’s Guide to Oral Sex

Whether you are an oral sex virgin or an oral sex master, the Idiot’s Guide to Oral Sex will be a valuable tool to ensure that you have the best oral sex experience possible, making every oral sex encounter a memorable one. I believe everyone can learn more about oral sex, and can become an outstanding lover. As a leading sex expert, I’ve been teaching thousands of singles and couples all around the globe how to have healthy sex and relationships for more than a decade. While writing this book, even I learned some new dynamics on oral sex.

Dr. Ava’s Tantra Workbook

Dr. Ava’s Tantra Workbook can help everyone learn the basics of Tantra and Tantric Sex. Many people are unclear about what Tantra is and what Tantra is not. Tantra is not a religion, a sexual cult, a new age spiritual philosophy, exhibitionism, swinging, or sex therapy. Tantra is a Sanskrit (ancient Hindu) word that means to weave energy, specifically Yin (female) and Yang (male) energy between two lovers. This energy includes our thoughts, feelings, physical and sexual actions. There are several different kinds of Tantra. This workbook focuses on Red Tantra, which directs sexual, loving or healing energy to your lover. Tantra can help to heal a hurt relationship that has lost its sizzle and spice. For women, Tantra can empower and fulfill their sensual needs. For men it can open up a whole new world to intimacy and it can give them the tools to become multi-orgasmic. For couples it’s an opportunity to create a more meaningful and intimate connection. There are dozens of exercises to open up your Chakras and to experience the six elements of Tantra; Breath, Movement, Sound, Muscle Lock, Intention and Attention.

The Stock Market Orgasm

This book uses the ups and downs of the stock market as an analogy for a new lovemaking system Dr. Ava calls, The Stock Market Orgasm. “Why should our relationship with our investments be any different from our relationship with our lovers? The capital that we put into our relationships is ourselves. Surely we deserve a really good return on our investment, not just a five-minute fling” says Dr. Ava, who was inspired to write this book for busy business men and women. With the additional investment of a little time and effort (say one hour out of the 720 there are in a month), the Stock Market Orgasm book shows you how you can increase your love portfolio ten-fold.

Love Around The House

You can add zest, variety and excitement to your love life with common household items found in every room of your home. You don’t have to go to a specialty store for sensual lotions, erotic toys or gadgets that vibrate. Everything you will ever need is within reach inside your own home, (or should be after you read this book!). It’s very important to keep adventure and creativity in your love life. Your imagination can make romance a priority in your life. If necessary, schedule private time with your lover and share intimate moments, fun and memories. Love Around The House will show you how to find and use simple household items in ways you never imagined!

Passion Power Workbook

The Passion Power Workbook is a personal fulfillment and sensual enrichment program for couples. It is guaranteed to improve communication, enhance intimacy, and expand sexual horizon, not to mention turn the often-serious subject of sex into adult play. Dr. Ava teaches you how to build communication, intimacy, passion and playfulness within the context of a relationship. In this package, you will learn new ways of reinventing your sexual being and listen to her discuss such topics as – why passion fades, the forgiveness process, the art of intimate communication, how to prolong love making, and how to expand one’s sexual horizons. Running time approx. 60 min per audio – total of 6 hours

12 Steps to Everlasting Love

12 Steps to Everlasting Love is a guide to self-improvement and positive relationships. Everlasting love is attainable for everyone and applies to all ages and cultures. This book provides simple steps to reinvent oneself from the negative influences of family, prior relationships, religion and education. These words are Dr. Ava’s labor-of-love to give you supportiveness, encouragement, and instruction along your way. The first three steps represent “healing” oneself; steps four through six “valuing” oneself; steps seven through nine, “discovering” or “finding” who you are looking for (how to zoom in on the right person); and, steps ten through twelve concentrate on, “keeping” your everlasting love happy and healthy. This book is a great introduction to new relationships and valuable tool for people making a transition from one relationship to another.

Confessions to a Sexologist

In compiling the confessions in this book, I became aware of its unique place in the field of sexual therapy and philosophy. Confessions to a Sexologist, offers a telling glimpse of sexual life in America, through actual case histories, unprejudiced by religious, political or feminist presuppositions. These case histories were accumulated gathered from my private practice, from the seminars and college classes I teach, and from my consultations with therapists in related fields. They are consequently multicultural with no secret left unexamined.

Topics include:

• Self image & self gratification

• Performance problems & rekindling passion

• Parental concerns

• BDSM & Fantasies

• Orgasm barriers

• Infidelity

• Inhibitions

• Power struggles & self destruction

• Sexual Ettiquette


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